tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-515409534094594845.post2533183712170806227..comments2023-05-16T09:26:43.388-07:00Comments on Heart to Heart with Sylvia: YOU SHOULD NOT SETTLEAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17431725314186890449noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-515409534094594845.post-34041919672352887732016-05-14T06:26:34.296-07:002016-05-14T06:26:34.296-07:00Thanks for your feedback, I don't think its he...Thanks for your feedback, I don't think its healthy for you to have fear of loosing someone that is indifferent towards loosing you. Love is a two way thing and for it to work, the two people have to love and cherish each other.It shouldn't be one sided. Take care.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17431725314186890449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-515409534094594845.post-27536741327666026082016-05-14T06:12:10.881-07:002016-05-14T06:12:10.881-07:00Nice post @sylvia,bt as we know 'the heart'...Nice post @sylvia,bt as we know 'the heart' is one messed up organ. Men hv two masters and one of dem is fear. The fear of loosing sumone u luv is one of d greatest fears pipo who fall in luv face, fear is wat leads to jealousy and over protection bt d question is 'what if she goes?'. Believe me when I say u hv bin living before u met dat person. If life can take sumone u neva thought of loosing, it will replace it with sumone u neva thought of having.. Have a nice day guys Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03254745671170496350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-515409534094594845.post-22974894307617213842016-05-14T05:57:14.474-07:002016-05-14T05:57:14.474-07:00Thank you so much for your feedback. That's a ...Thank you so much for your feedback. That's a very lovely contribution.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17431725314186890449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-515409534094594845.post-16480154766205592302016-05-14T05:42:12.710-07:002016-05-14T05:42:12.710-07:00Wow. This is 100% true, it is really fear that dri...Wow. This is 100% true, it is really fear that drives people to settle for less and also jealousy from mostly the fake lives they see on instagram, some are real o but some are fake as well. <br />I have always known that waiting for the right person would always be worth it, waiting for your missing rib the one God has prepared for you is the best. <br />Some people may feel lonely and all but you cannot be with someone because you are lonely, that would even make u so much dependant and clingy to the person which in turn would not be good for you. So while you are waiting for "the one" i feel we should all work on ourselves, try to end our weaknesses and improve our strenghts so that when the person comes we would be a blessing and have so much to offer them rather than a broken heart from messing about with the wrong peopleAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13997399321894892731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-515409534094594845.post-11157144514757822502016-05-14T04:26:23.865-07:002016-05-14T04:26:23.865-07:00Hi Anonymous, thanks for your feedback. I agree wi...Hi Anonymous, thanks for your feedback. I agree with you that you created a void that wasn't there in the first place simply because you were longing for a fairytale...don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with that. Just don't let that yearning drive you into the arms of the wrong person, which is what happened in your case. I'm glad you've learnt from this. Regarding your question on loneliness, I think the best thing you can do is to not dwell on it...the fact that you feel lonely and try to engage yourself in other activities. Free yourself from negative thoughts and focus on other good stuff you have in your life. The right one will come along soon.<br />Take care.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17431725314186890449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-515409534094594845.post-69139766233524808762016-05-14T04:13:36.365-07:002016-05-14T04:13:36.365-07:00Hi sylvia, your platform is great. I like this po...Hi sylvia, your platform is great. I like this post cos this happens a lot. some ppl dont even know when they are settling.<br />I was in a relationship two years ago. Before i got into it i was so desperate to meet a guy, to be like those cute couples, to have what i saw in the movies. then this guy came along...he had good looks and seemed okay in the beginning. i was so happy that at least i met someone that started convincing myself that he was the one and that was in love. of course i knew this wasnt true..to cut a long story short, we dated and it didn't end well because he drained me emotionally.( I think he knew that somehow i needed him to fill the void i created for myself) I had to end things before i lost myself in a loveless relatonship. My question is...how do we overcome this feeling of loneliness that often leads to desperation? ThanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com