....setting yourself up for heartbreak, disappointment and failure! Yes, it's all you! You made yourself feel this way because your instincts warned you from the beginning and yet you decided to go into it anyway...for reasons like loneliness, desperation, too high expectations as well as too low, pressure to be in a relationship and so on...
When you go a relationship despite all the doubts you're having, despite your heart telling you that it doesn't feel right, you're making yourself vulnerable, you're setting yourself up! When you do this, expect nothing but DISAPPOINTMENT.
You know you're setting yourself up when;
- There's no real chemistry...you just want someone...anyone
- Being with someone out of pity...
- Loving someone too much that you'll accept when they treat you badly...
- Not accepting love because you've been hurt...
- Being stuck on one person that isn't ready to love you back...
- Having the mentality that someone is doing you a favour by being with you...
- You just got into a new relationship and you're too careful not to make mistakes so much that you're not giving them a chance to be themselves...
I could go on and on but I'll leave you with this;
"Stop seeking happiness in someone that can't provide it...
Stop looking for the right thing in the wrong one..."
Stay tuned people!
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