ARE YOU SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR HEARTBREAK?

We go into relationships and other things that we know deep down are bound to fail and yet we do it anyway...guess what that's called....

....setting yourself up for heartbreak, disappointment and failure! Yes, it's all you! You made yourself feel this way because your instincts warned you from the beginning and yet you decided to go into it anyway...for reasons like loneliness, desperation, too high expectations as well as too low, pressure to be in a relationship and so on...
When you go a relationship despite all the doubts you're having, despite your heart telling you that it doesn't feel right, you're making yourself vulnerable, you're setting yourself up! When you do this, expect nothing but DISAPPOINTMENT.
You know you're setting yourself up when;

• There's no real chemistry...you just want someone...anyone 

(You can do better than this, don't ever settle for less than you know you deserve. There's better out there..you just have to be patient)

• Being with someone out of pity...

(This is the WORST....I repeat; the WORST that anyone can do to themselves. Not only are you hurting yourself, you're hurting someone else too...set them free, the earlier the better)

• Loving someone too much that you'll accept when they treat you badly...

(You're worthy of being loved and being loved right...don't ever let anyone treat you less than you deserve...Yes breakups hurt but losing someone who doesn't respect and appreciate you is actually a gain and not a loss!)

• Not accepting love because you've been hurt...

(You've been hurt and that's sad but don't give up just yet...I can assure you that not everyone out there is the same. You'll eventually find someone that'll treat you right. Not everyone out there is like your ex. That's a guarantee)

• Being stuck on one person that isn't ready to love you back...

(You can't make someone be ready for what you're ready for and you can't stick around and wait for them to make up their minds)

• Having the mentality that someone is doing you a favour by being with you...

(This is just too wrong that I can't begin to explain...I'm short of words but all I can tell you is that you deserve better)

• You just got into a new relationship and you're too careful not to make mistakes so much that you're not giving them a chance to be themselves...

(Stop forcing your new love to pay for the debts of an old flame)

I could go on and on but I'll leave you with this;

"Stop seeking happiness in someone that can't provide it...

Stop looking for the right thing in the wrong one..."

Stay tuned people!